Rehearsal Dinner

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

Like all great modern love stories, ours began... on Hinge. Caleb first messaged Rachel in May 2020, right in the middle of COVID. Rachel didn’t reply at first (oops), but Caleb wasn’t giving up that easily—he double-texted, and the rest is history. After two months of chatting on Snapchat, we finally met in person—and from that moment on, we’ve been inseparable. Over the years, we’ve traveled to new places, laughed until we cried, and supported each other through life’s highs and lows. We also adopted our sweet dog Gizmo, who quickly became the center of our world (and knows it). Rachel lovingly tolerates Caleb’s weekly (sometimes daily) video game raids, and Caleb is Rachel’s biggest cheerleader in everything she does. Our relationship is built on love, patience, loyalty—and the frequent friendly debates over who is right (most of the time it is Rachel) We can’t wait to celebrate our next chapter with all of you. 💍✨

Our Story

Gizmo

Photos

Bridal Party

I first met Colleen through her now-husband, Jordan, who I worked with at Revlon—and I’m so glad that friendship brought her into my life. These days, we spend our time walking together, catching up on Bravo and The Bachelorette, and enjoying plenty of double dates filled with great food and even better wine. She’s been such an important part of my world, and I’m so lucky to have her standing beside me on this day.

Colleen Butler

Tina and I met while working at Revlon, and we instantly clicked. From our very first rollerblading adventure together, I knew she was going to be a lifelong friend. Over the years, we’ve traveled together, shared countless laughs, and tackled just about every activity you can think of. Our dogs are even (somewhat reluctant) besties, which feels perfectly fitting. She’s been by my side through all of life’s highs and lows, and I can’t imagine this day without her standing beside me.

Christina (Tina) Kushner

Amy is my twin sister and one of the most creative people I know—I have so much of her artwork hanging in my house. We love going to concerts (sometimes for artists I’ve never even heard of, but they’re always a blast), watching movies, exploring gardens, visiting museums, and catching plays together. I couldn’t imagine this day without her by my side, just like she has been for every other important moment in my life.

Amy Spurling

Anna and I were randomly paired for a group project in college and instantly bonded over our shared frustration with the third group member who didn’t pull their weight. One night after the project, we stayed up for hours talking in her dorm room and became best friends on the spot. Over the years, we’ve painted pottery, eaten our way through every Asian restaurant we could find, and now we even work together at Cisco (thanks to her for referring me!). I’m so lucky to have her in my life and standing by my side on this day.

Anna Strawn

Christina and I met during Pi Beta Phi recruitment at NC State when we were standing in line together—and she quickly realized I have terrible rhythm because I can’t clap on beat. We got to live together in the sorority house and later shared an apartment our senior year (she’s still the best roommate I’ve ever had). These days, I love visiting her at the beach and getting snuggles from her sweet dog, Lily. Christina is one of the most generous people I know and is always there when you need her—I’m so lucky to have her by my side.

Christina Chapman

Keyan and I met at Revlon and became fast friends. Even when she moved back to China for a few years, we stayed in touch—and now that she’s back, it feels like she never left. She works harder than anyone I know, but when she finally takes a break, we make up for lost time with kayaking adventures, homemade Chinese food nights, arts and crafts projects, and plenty of games (with lots of laughs along the way). Life is always more fun with Keyan around, and I’m so excited to have her by my side on this day!

Keyan Liu

Megan and I met sophomore year when we were suitemates at NC State, and we’ve stayed close ever since. From cheering at football games and trying new restaurants to getting plenty of love from her dog, Zoey, and her cat, Opal, every time I visit, we’ve shared so many fun memories over the years. I’m so grateful for her friendship and couldn’t imagine this day without her by my side.

Megan Overby

Groomsmen

Alec has been my lifelong friend since around 3 months old. We went to the same elementary (except grade 3-5, stupid school district boundaries), middle, high school, and college. We were in every sport together except hockey and wrestling, the latter requiring more skill and strength than he had. Suffice it to say Alec has been there through it all with me. Currently living in Chicago with his Fiancé Mary Kate, we
maintain our friendship through video games and direct flights.

Alec Middleton

Ben was one of the first lifelong friends I made at Indiana University, many of
whom will be at the wedding. Like Jack, Ben and I spent way too many nights of being
up to no good. Through our love of Video games and having a good time, any chance I
get to go back to Bloomington I make sure to have a night out with Ben.

Ben Shuler

Christian was a roommate of Bens when we first met in 2015, between 2015-
2018, refer to Ben and Jacks section for info. Since then, Christian and I maintained a
friendship when I moved to North Carolina for work, as he had just moved to Virigina
beach. Through several road trips, couple flights, and you guessed it, video games, he
and I have remain close.

Christian May

Cory is my brother and one of the most enterprising people I know. Founding his own company, he has been an insight as to what true dedication and disciple can do when applied right. We love going out to eat any random exotic places and don’t shy away from something we cannot pronounce.

Cory Gardner

Jack and I were roommates at Indiana University and suffered our final two years of academia together. Many nights were had watching horror movies, staying up till 4
am, doing anything but what we were supposed to. Over the years my career has enabled me to keep in touch and visit jack in whatever city he’s currently living in.

Jack Alfonso

Jordan and I met through Rachel (he is married to Rachel's Matron of Honor, Colleen). Jordan and I
bonded over our love for beer and socializing with friends at every waking moment.
Jordan will melt without social interaction, and that keeps introverts like me in check.
Whether it’s out grilling, losing sports bets, or hanging out at any given brewery, Jordan
is always there to have a good time.

Jordan Butler

Tim and I met in several of our programming classes and through mutual friends; however, we bonded over our very last semester together against “The Radical Frenchman”, a professor we had. He has been a source of insights and has always brought a good time with him wherever he goes. Currently living in Bloomington Indiana I try and see him when we can’t game together.

Tim Jones

Wedding Party

4:30 PMGuests Arrive5:00 PMCeremony5:30 PMCocktail Hour6:30 PMSpeeches6:45 PMDinner8:00 PMDance, dance, dance!10:45 PMSend-Off

Schedule

What is the dress code?

Our dress code is garden party semi-formal. Think colorful, fun, and floral! Sundresses, midi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or suits (with or without a tie) are all great options.

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony will be outside (weather permitting), so cross your fingers for sunshine! Cocktail hour will be on the patio, and the reception will move indoors—but the patio will stay open all night if you need a fresh air break (or a dance floor cool-down).

Should I avoid any colors?

Yes, please save white for the bride. Otherwise, we encourage you to wear colors that make you feel confident!

Where is the wedding?

Lavender Oaks Farm3833 Millard Whitley Rd.Chapel Hill, NC 27516

Will the ceremony and reception be at the same location?

The Reception and Ceremony will both be held atLavender Oaks Farm

Will transportation be provided?

We won't have shuttle service, but plenty of parking is available at the venue. Rideshare options like Uber and Lyft are also easy to arrange for your convenience.

How do I get to the venue and is there parking at the venue?

Please type in, “Lavender Oaks Farm” in your preferred Map program and it will pop up for the best directions to and from the farm. As you enter the wrought iron gates, let the serenity of the 60 acre farm embrace you as the winding country road leads you to the restored century old timber frame barns. You can drop off your passengers near the door and park in the large gravel lot.

What time should we arrive?

Please arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony to allow time to park and to grab a cup of coffee, check out the venue, and find your seat before we say “I do.”

What if I can’t drive home after the reception?

No worries at all! 🚗 If you are not able to drive, you are welcome to leave your car in the venue parking lot overnight and grab an Uber or Lyft home. Rideshares are easy to get from the venue, so you can celebrate without stressing about the drive. Please don’t drink and drive—we want everyone to get home safely! 🥂✨

Will the ceremony be unplugged?

Yes! Our photographer and videographer will be capturing every moment, so we kindly ask you to put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony. Don’t worry—there will be a special photo-op time where you can snap all the pictures you want!

Can I bring my kids?

While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration

Are there hotel room blocks?

Visit the Travel tab on this website to find out more about hotel options!

What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?

We have gluten-free, vegan, and vegetarian options ready to go. Please let us know if you have any additional restrictions when you RSVP and we will do our best to accommodate you.

Q + A

Airport

You will want to fly into Raleigh-Durham International Airport (RDU). It’s only about 25 minutes from the hotel recommendations—super convenient for your trip!

Raleigh-Durham International Airport

Hotel Recommendations!

There are several wonderful hotels, Air BnB's, and VRBO's within 15-20 minutes of our venue. Uber &amp; Lyft are easily accessible to and from the venue.

**Where we are staying! On Main Street, an easy walk from many highly-rated local restaurants including several on the ground floor of our building. It's a two-mile drive to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Ackland Art Museum, and the hospital complex. Walk across the parking lot to concerts at Cat's Cradle. Enjoy free hot breakfast and free WiFi.

Hampton Inn & Suites Chapel Hill-Carrboro/Downtown

Europe in our soul, Carolina on our mind, and a contemporary AC Hotel in the heart of Chapel Hill, North Carolina. AC Hotel Chapel Hill is walkable to local restaurants, retail shops, and attractions, and only a short distance from the University of North Carolina. Designed for both business and leisure travelers, this downtown Chapel Hill hotel combines stylish sophistication with practical comforts.&nbsp;Guestrooms are an oasis of modern design plus conveniences like speedy WiFi, charging ports, widescreen TVs, individual climate control, and the best bed you’ll sleep in besides your own. Socialize and relax at the AC Lounge, where you’ll find an array of tapas and specialty cocktails; sit at the bar or gather around the outdoor fireplace. Other amenities include a 24-hour fitness center, so you don’t have to leave your workout goals at home. Whether you’re visiting Chapel Hill for a UNC game, a business trip, or a vacation, AC Hotel Chapel Hill offers a perfectly precise stay for every guest.

AC Hotel by Marriott Chapel Hill Downtown

Travel

Walk around the beautiful campus, check out the Old Well, or explore the North Carolina Botanical Garden

University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill

Morehead Planetarium and Science Center

Ackland Art Museum

Full of great shops, restaurants, and lively nightlife—perfect for a casual stroll or grabbing a bite!

Rachel & Caleb